To get your wife back requires a lot of time and effort. Women are driven by their emotions and when a separation happens it generally means that your wife’s feelings and needs were not being met.
To improve your relationship you may find that you need to undergo some changes in your life. If you think that you will not be able to keep up or be satisfied with such changes, then do not try to get your wife back. This will only lead to more heartbreak down the road.
If you think you can make positive changes to be able to support her emotions, your first step to getting your wife back is to get hold of her. Contact her at an appropriate time, but do not wait too long, as she may be attracting other men.
Other than calling her, you can also contact her by email or text message to simply check on how she is doing. From there you will able to increase the contact.
Every time you speak to her, take note that you listen closely to what says and how she acts. Remember, her body language will tell you how she is feeling and what she thinks of you trying to get her back.
Pay close attention and show her that you value her emotions and points of view. One of the most vital things your woman needs in the marriage is to feel that her emotions and opinions are respected by you.
When you are together, there is no harm to flirt a little – you will able to see whether she is open to you or not. Nothing makes your woman happier or feel more beautiful than when she is desired by a man (you). Just be subtle about it and take it slowly.
Be there for her, but be careful not to become just her friend. Once you go there, she will merely see you as a friend forever, and you will never get your wife back. To make sure you do not fall into the “friend” category, stay attentive, but a little detached. Do not try to be over emotional just to be seen as a sensitive guy – this will not work!
By simply being there for her and valuing her, and showing her that you are able to give her everything she needs emotionally, you are likely to get your wife back.