Almost all of us have experienced a strong relationship in our lives, when all of sudden when things seem so perfect, the relationship ends because your husband wants more space. There are a number of reasons your husband may need more space, such as family issues, insecurities, or a fear of commitment.
But here are some tips that I learned how to get my husband back when he wanted more space.
What I realized is that although you still love him, you need to keep your pride and not let him get the upper hand. In some cases during a separation it is good to play hard to get, to show him that he’s the one who’s lost out, not you.
If you think your husband still has feelings for you, then it is best to initiate a conversation with him. But in a time when he needs space, just try keep the communication brief before things get messy. Short phone calls, text messages or online chats are all good ways to remind him that he needs you, without smothering him with your presence.
If all goes to plan, after some time he will start to show more interest in you again, and this will allow you to remind him of the good times. While learning how to get my husband back, I tried to avoid reminding him of the bad times in case they brought up negative feelings and put me back at square one.
If your husband does not respond to your subtle advances, you should take it for what it is. Either he has lost interest in you, or he needs more space and you should give it to him. However, if he start paying more attention to you, then continue to slowly advance on him until you get your husband back.
When your husband gives you the right signals, you can try share your feelings with him. Open your heart up to him, without looking needy or desperate. If your husband shows sign of wanting to get back together, then it is best to open up to him. But if his body language shows the opposite, it may be best to take a step back and allow things to unfold naturally.
These are some of the starting steps I learned when I wanted to know how to get my husband back. When I went through a separation I was not sure what to do. That’s when I turned to the Magic Of Making Up – a down to earth step by step guide – that taught me and many other women how to get my husband back.