You get home after yet another date. It did not go well. You find yourself thinking of getting back with your ex.
After the relationship ends, you may move on to new people. But, when you always catch yourself thinking of ways to get your ex back, is there anything that you can do to rekindle that old romance?
Yes. There are, and here I will show you four ways at getting back with your ex.
1 – Focus all energy on your ex:
You need to stop wasting your time with other people that are not your ex. To get back together, you need to prepare yourself mentally, physically and spiritually for the time comes. If you are flirting with someone else, dating others, or much worse, sleeping around, you are not in the right frame of mind to get back with your ex.
2 – Keep your dignity:
Never chase after your ex, bombarding them with thousands of text messages, emails and calling them at odd times of day, or even following them around. Also you need to make sure your ex respects you and treats you well. Don’t be a doormat.
You will only get back your ex’s love and respect when you are looking and being your best. Stay confident, and it will help your chances of getting back with your ex.
3 – Make positive changes:
When you do get back together, try spicing things up a bit by going to new places and doing new things. Start a new hobby together. Make new friends. By changing the environment and circumstances you have a better chance at making it work, before things go stale again.
Don’t fall into the same old habits and routine that led to the break up in the first place. You may even want to take the relationship down a level. If you were living together, try move into a separate place for a while. If you about to get married, try simply dating again. If winning your ex back is what you want, never try force the relationship back into the same old pattern.
4 – Create a future together:
You need to create a shared sense of destiny, and plan a future together. While fate does play a role in our lives, we are ultimately the ones that make the choices and write our life script. Discuss with your partner what you want in the future. When you do this as a couple, you create a goal with each of you having a purpose.
When you plan on getting back with your ex, you need to work with new ideas and try new things. Follow the advice in this article if you are serious about winning back your ex and building a bright future with them.