What To Say To Get Back My Ex
Have you ever asked yourself, “What should I say to get back my ex“?
If so, then what I am about to tell you may help you win back your ex.
It may sound hard to believe, but there are actually “magic” words you can use that make your ex feel compelled to return your call, email or text. But before I reveal those “magic” words, I need to warn you that they are only PART of an overall strategy that I use to get back my ex – a strategy that I learned in the Magic Of Making Up. And if used alone, it could do your relationship more harm than good.
What not to say:
Before we discuss the words I use, let’s quickly look at what message almost never works. And worst of all could put you in an awful “psychological” predicament.
There are two types of messages that never work:
1 – The Plead:
This message involves you begging and pleading with your ex to return your call. It makes you sound weak and desperate.
It goes something like this:
“Carol, please, please call me back. I miss you. I really have to speak to you.”
2 – The Emergency:
This message tries to instill a sense of urgency, but fails hopelessly. It sounds something like this:
“David, this is an emergency. Please call me as soon as possible.”
I’m sure you realize what is wrong with both of these approaches. They make you sound needy and desperate, and they won’t fool your ex.
The Secret Recipe:
So what type of message is guaranteed to work, and get your ex to respond?
Well, it boils down to using two of the human mind’s most powerful forces:
- Curiosity and
- Self interest
And when you mix them together, you have the “magic” words to get back your ex.
Here is an example of a message I used to get back my ex. In a light-hearted tone I said:
“Hi Candice. It’s Mike. I wanted to let you know I appreciate what you did for me. So call me because I want to thank you in person.”
See how my message invoked both curiosity and self interest?
Candice felt compelled to return my call. She probably thought to herself: “What did I do? What does he appreciate?” And she felt confident because it was a pleasant message.
Now, just a word of warning…
Before you make the call, you need to think of something your ex did, that you could appreciate, no matter how small or insignificant it may seem. It just needs to be plausible, and more importantly…
It needs to be part of an underlying strategy to get back your ex. If it isn’t then you will be wasting your time, and doing yourself more harm than good.
What I mean is that what you do before and after the call is more important than getting your ex to call you back. Otherwise your ex will think that you are playing silly games, and may avoid all future contact.
See what I mean?
You need a plan.
One that takes you step-by-step to get back your ex.
The one I used is similar to what is laid out in the Magic Of Making Up.
